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Forums  ::  Girls Ask  ::  Why do guys say "yes I want to see you again" when in fact they dont! I just dont get it!!
Why do guys say "yes I want to see you again" when in fact they dont! I just dont get it!!
Posted by: squizzy65 Date: Aug 18, 2008
I met a great guy a few weeks back that I really liked. After meeting for a few times I thought things were going well. After our second meeting I asked him if he still wanted to see me and he said "yes", we have kept in touch by sms only and I wish he would just say "I am not into you" , so frustrating that men just dont tell it how it is. Do you think I really want to be with someone that is "not into me"!? Please guys get your acts together and be honest. Being truthful is a positive thing and for me I dont take offence infact I would rather know so I can move on and meet other guys!
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Cos... we're bastards
Posted by: Syd_MVP Date: Aug 19, 2008
I mean. It's because we don't want to seem like bastards so we take the cowardly way out of saying we want a second date when we don't. I know its pathetic but thats how we are sometimes. In your case tho, it's possible the guy was keen for seconds but maybe he met someone else along the way. Sometimes we are not fully keen but will keep options open by saying we are interested when really we're saying 'I'm interested so long as no one else comes along'.
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No way.
Posted by: Perth_Heat Date: Aug 19, 2008
Squizzy. I think your cute as. I reckon the guy just got scared. Sometimes we want something to work so bad that we rather squash it and pretend we didn't want it that much than give it a go and fall on our faces.
I try to be honest with the girls I meet. It's really hard to say 'no thanks' tho. I reckon you shouldn't worry about guys making up their minds. Just move on to the next guy if the first guy doesn't play ball
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Posted by: mparker08 Date: Jan 05, 2009
Iv met a couple girls who have had blokes do that to them, actually one chick was on a date with this guy, she went to the toilet and he bolted!! How is that! Anyway, in my opinion, i think he is trying to see somebody else but letting you go could ruin his chances of possibly being with you some other time. Just try calling him and if he doesnt answer your calls yet texts you tell him to jump! I hope he comes around, because if you have caught up a few times then obviously he likes you enough to see you a second time when its not so awkward
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my truth
Posted by: lonleylad Date: Feb 06, 2009
squizzy ,you should know by now .at first it seems okay but when reality sets in the truth comes out ..what i have found is most people put on a false front .they cant hide it for to long and go back to what they really are ..me ,right from the first go what you see is what you get ..i wish all people would be like this then you know what you are into straight up
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not all guys can be blunt
Posted by: aaronh88 Date: Feb 13, 2009
not all us guys can be blunt and we also dont want to hurt a woman/girls feelings, but then theres those who are, it really depends on the individual themselves, he maybe hoping that you will give up on him so he doesnt hurt your feelings, its really hard to tell, becaus eas i have stated above in my post, were all individauls and our minds work different.
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honesty really is the best policy!
Posted by: pvcangel Date: Mar 02, 2009
I am so sick of getting this line! I also would appreciate honesty from guys if they don't want to see me again. Just be honest and tell us it's only for one night..we at least appreciate being told what you're thinking and it'll save us the extra phone calls!
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hey squizzy
Posted by: SmilesWithEyes Date: May 31, 2009
mm am i jaded? i think not... truth is dear sqizzy that men do like to keep their options open..even if theyre not into you some men like to keep you dangling with a text here and there because chances are you may still sleep with them.. once theyve actually said "im not into you" theyve closed the door. Your an attractive woman.. delete his phone number and move along..youll know when someone really is into you..generally this means they will actually dial your number and not text.
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Honesty is the best policy!
Posted by: sifujas Date: Jun 22, 2009
Many men are too wimpy to 'reject' a woman to her face. And yes, unfortunately many men try to keep their options open. I agree, upfront communication would be best, after all I've experienced in reverse and would have prefered to know up front.
What I think guys need to realise is they can be 'blunt' and still be tactful. It's all about respect.
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